tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8069837175300227387.post2337111856177652232..comments2023-07-02T02:01:12.138-07:00Comments on Dr.ELRoi: Extreme AmbivalenceE L R o ihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160232542907487281noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8069837175300227387.post-75833074207196428312009-07-13T18:20:33.926-07:002009-07-13T18:20:33.926-07:00Thanks courage for the encouragement I really appr...Thanks courage for the encouragement I really appreciate it. I already did and they are all praying for me.<br /><br />To stanw, thank you also very much for all these words of wisdom for it reminds of everything I need to remember.<br /><br />Anyway, I have decided not to do it because I love Jesus! But I still need your prayers. Yes I am grieving for it is painful to give them up but it is the right thing to do. Thank you brothers in Christ! and I love you too!E L R o ihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10160232542907487281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8069837175300227387.post-50628135499852133612009-07-12T10:53:15.881-07:002009-07-12T10:53:15.881-07:00Hi there,
Your blog today brings up many issues b...Hi there,<br /><br />Your blog today brings up many issues but one important one is that having sex just once more will lead you back to where you were before. Perhaps you have fantasized about having sex with them and that could feed your desire more. I am not preaching because in many ways I too have had the urge and compulsion to do it once more. Thankfully that has not happened because I know myself too well and it'd draw me back big time. <br /><br />Our memories are very selective when it comes to sexual activity. Most of the time we only remember the 'heart pounding' sexual experiences that were good ones. We/I do that and forget/ignore the ones that left me (and they were more than the good ones) feeling so empty and alone. When I recall those it tells me to run the other direction and fast. At those times I am so prone to do it in my own strength (which I know I don't have) but I know there is only One, Jesus Christ, who has the power to give me strength. <br /><br />May God give you wisdom and strength right now to leave this dilemma behind. Your emotions may feel painful and I don't doubt they are, I have been there and probably will face them again, but I know you will make it, I just know it.<br /><br />I love you brother, you are such a valuable friend.<br /><br />Stanstanwhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07470558145823645718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8069837175300227387.post-88058664344598252892009-07-11T07:09:49.292-07:002009-07-11T07:09:49.292-07:00Hi friend!
Keep in touch with your accountability...Hi friend!<br /><br />Keep in touch with your accountability partner and be rigorously honest about your struggle. Prayer helps too.Courage Philippineshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10542485869683884716noreply@blogger.com